When was the last time when you let your mind be truly open, and embraced a truly radically different point of view, other than your daily one?
Make an experiment today: when you hear something that immediately triggers your hell no! response, just... take 5 breaths, count to 10, give it 5 minutes. Make a cup of tea, or coffee. Don't rush.
Let it sink. Let your mind touch the idea, and make an informed decision. Don't surf the knee-jerk gut reaction.
You will see something spectacular happening, maybe not the first time, maybe even not the fifth: your mind will open, and reach beyond the horizon. In my book that's a solid win!